Two vintage photographs. On the left, a studio shot of a young woman, Eleanor Geib. On the right, a identification photo of a young man in uniform, Private James Brady.
April 25, 2018

"All my love for you and you only"  

“All my love for you and you only” 

Photogaph of a handwritten letter with the sign off, “Diamond Jim”.

 


Fifteen year old Eleanor Geib and eighteen year old James “Jimmy” Brady met at a dance hall on Strood Avenue in North Kildonan.
 

They began courting and after Jimmy enlisted with the Winnipeg Grenadiers, exchanged love letters while he was stationed on garrison duty in Bermuda and Jamaica at the beginning of WWII. His parting words in nearly every letter were “With all my love for you and you only” and he signed many of them “Diamond Jim”, a reference to a popular comic strip of the era, according to his younger sister, Dorothy. 

 

Vintage posed wedding photograph with bride and groom in the centre and bridesmaid and best man either side of them. The groom and best man are both in uniform, while the bride and bridesmaid both hold bouquets.

When Jimmy returned to Winnipeg on furlough in October 1941, the couple married at her parents’ home on Bonner Avenue, with her sister Marguerite and his friend Harry Robinson, a fellow Grenadier, serving as witnesses. Within days of marrying, Jimmy and the rest of the Winnipeg Grenadiers were shipped out to Hong Kong. 

Jimmy wrote to Eleanor about his journey through western Canada and the uneventful voyage across the Pacific Ocean. Upon arriving in Hong Kong, he sent his new bride a beautiful green silk pyjama set and slippers, along with letters about life abroad. 

Telegram bearing the news that Private James Brady was killed in action at Hong Kong.

Expecting a quiet assignment at the former British colony, the Canadian military was surprised when the Japanese army descended on the island of Hong Kong on December 8, 1941. After a 17 day fight, dubbed the Battle of Hong Kong, the Canadians capitulated on Christmas Day and Canadian, British and Indian survivors were taken as prisoners of war of the Japanese for the next 44 months. Private James Brady did not survive the battle, dying in combat on December 19, 1941. In the ensuing chaos, his wife, mother and sisters did not receive word of his passing until January of 1943. 

A Memorial Cross medal on a purple ribbon in a medal box. An engagement ring is fastened to around the medal’s ribbon.

Following the war, widows and mothers of the war dead were given the Memorial Cross medal. Eleanor, widowed at age 17, fastened her engagement ring to the purple silk ribbon of the medal she received and stored it away with the letters, pyjamas, photographs and other objects she had saved from her brief marriage. 

Two Memorial Cross medals on purple ribbons each in a medal box. The medal on the left has an engagement ring fastened to the ribbon.

Eleanor went on to marry again and had four children with her second husband. She spoke little of her first love, but even after her passing in 2005, her daughters kept the trove of mementos safe in her stead. Last summer, after learning of the Manitoba Museum’s Hong Kong Veterans collection on the local CTV morning show, her daughters made the decision to donate Eleanor’s treasures to the Museum. These objects complement the collection in a unique, albeit tragic, way: we have very few materials from Winnipeg Grenadiers who did not survive the Battle of Hong Kong and subsequent internment. 

Photograph of a handwritten letter ending, “Give my reards to all the gang, and also remember me to all at home, and you darling, I want you to keep smiling and don’t give up hope. So until my next letter, adios. With all my love for you and you only, Jimmy. XXXXXXXXXX”.

 

The family also connected us with Jimmy’s surviving sister, Dorothy, who came to the museum to view the new acquisitions –she commented that Jimmy always had excellent handwriting and was a prolific letter writer. Dorothy imparted more information about Jimmy’s short life for our records and donated the Memorial Cross medal her mother had received 70 years earlier, after the loss of her only son. 

 

These new acquisitions have been carefully catalogued and photographed, detailing the story of Jimmy and Eleanor, his death and the events that followed. His story continues through the preservation of his written word and the objects he lovingly chose for his young bride. All his love for her and her only. 

Cortney Pachet

Cortney Pachet

Collections Technician – Human History

Cortney Pachet started working at the Manitoba Museum in 2001 as a tour guide while earning her a BA (Honours) from the University of Winnipeg. She quickly realized that she wanted a career in museums…
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Watch Out for Water-Lilies!

Two white water lily flowers among a cluster of green lily pads on the water's surface.

Water-lilies (Nymphaea spp.) have the largest flowers of all Manitoba plants. Unfortunately, because they grow in deep water, the only time you can usually see these lovely flowers close up is when you are in a boat. For this reason, botanists who specialize in water-lilies are a unique breed because they spend a lot of time jumping into lakes and rivers to get good specimens. The distribution of water-lilies in Manitoba is poorly known due to the huge number of lakes and rivers we have here, as well as their inaccessibility. At the Manitoba Museum there are only 64 specimens of water-lilies of any kind in our collection.

Manitoba has four water-lily species, three of which are thought to be rare due to the limited number of specimens in Canada’s herbaria. Images and descriptions of each species, in order of decreasing size, is written below to help you identify them as you explore our province this summer.

Image: Water-lilies (Nymphaea spp.) are typically found in fairly deep water in clear lakes and rivers.

Close up on two white water lily flowers among a cluster of green lily pads on the water's surface.

Fragrant Water-lily

(Nymphaea odorata)

This rare species, found only in southeastern Manitoba, has the largest flowers of all our water lilies: 6 to 19 cm across with 17-43 petals. The leaves are also quite large: about 10-40 cm in diameter. The innermost floral parts (the carpels) are bright yellow in colour and 3-10 mm long. The best place to see this species is in Lily Pond Lake in Whiteshell Provincial Park when it flowers in July.

 

Image: Fragrant Water-lily (Nymphaea odorata) has the largest flowers of all our native water-lilies.

A close-up of a white water lily with a yellow centre, being held up to the camera lens.

Lori’s Water-lily

(Nymphaea loriana)

This species is rare, endemic to Canada, and has only been found north of Lake Winnipeg in clean, clear (not cloudy or tannic) water, and in eastern Saskatchewan. The flowers are slightly smaller than that of Fragrant Water-lily: 7.5-10 cm in diameter with 8-21 petals. The innermost floral parts (the carpels) are deep yellow in colour (kind of like the yolk from a free-range egg) and only 2-3 mm long. The leaves are 8-21 cm in diameter and green underneath and on top.

 

Image: Lori’s Water-lily (Nymphaea loriana) is a newly discovered species found only in Canada.

Two rows of three water lily leaves of varying sizes and colours.

The picture to the right compares the leaf undersides of Lori’s, Dwarf and Pygmy Water-lilies. Note the differences in both size and colour of the the leaf undersides.

 

Image: Lori’s Water-lily (Nymphaea loriana) is on the far left, Dwarf Water-lily (N. leibergii) is in the middle and Pygmy Water-lily (N. tetragona) is on the far right.

A close-up of a white water lily with a yellow centre, being held up to the camera lens.

Dwarf Water-lily

(Nymphaea leibergii)

This is the most common species in Manitoba, occurring in ponds, lakes and quiet streams throughout our southern Boreal Forest. The flowers are small, about 3-7.5 cm in diameter with 8-17 petals. The carpels are pale yellow but only up to 1.5 mm long. The leaves are about 2-19 cm in diameter and are typically a deep purple colour underneath.

 

Image: Dwarf water-lily (Nymphaea leibergii) is relatively common in northern Manitoba.

A close-up of a white water lily with a yellow centre framing a reddish-purple stigma, being held up to the camera lens.

Pygmy Water-lily

(Nymphaea tetragona)

This species is also relatively rare, occurring sporadically in our Boreal Forest. The key distinguishing characters of Pygmy Water-lily are its small size, bright, purple stigma at the very center of the flower, and the square-shaped floral base. All other water-lilies have a yellow stigma and a rounded floral base. The flowers are similar in size and petal number to Dwarf Water-lily. The leaves are typically 2-13 cm in diameter and are often green, mottled with purple on top, and shiny and green underneath.

 

Image: The rare Pygmy Water-lily (Nymphaea tetragona) has a distinctive purplish stigma.

Two rows of three water lily leaves of varying sizes and colours. Between the two rows of leaves are water lily flowers, placed upside-down.

Sometimes Dwarf and Pygmy Water-lilies hybridize to form unusually large plants. These hybrids have squared flower bases and large leaves with a purplish underside.

 

Image: Pygmy water-lily (Nymphaea tetragona) is on the far left, Dwarf Water-lily (N. leibergii) on the far right and a hybrid between the two is in the middle.

Water-lilies are often confused with pond lilies (Nuphar spp.). However, pond-lilies have bright yellow flowers that smell a bit like mango and oval leaves with feather-like veins. Water-lilies have round leaves with all the veins arising from the center of the leaf, like the palm of your hand.

Close-up on a bright yellow flower that has not fully opens growing among lily leaves on the water's surface.

Pond-lilies (Nuphar spp.) have bright yellow flowers that smell like mango!

Close-up on a oval green pond-lily leaf on the water's surface.

Pond-lily (Nuphar spp.) leaves are oval, not round and have feather-like veins.

Close-up on a circular green water-lily leaf on the water's surface.

The veins of round Water-lily (Nymphaea spp.) leaves all arise from the center.

If you’re out on a boat in one of Manitoba’s many lakes this July or August and you see a water-lily, take a picture and send it to me (DRobson@ManitobaMuseum.ca) along with the location where you found it to help improve our knowledge of these species. Don’t forget to flip a leaf over and take a picture of that too!

Dr. Diana Bizecki Robson

Dr. Diana Bizecki Robson

Curator of Botany

Dr. Bizecki Robson obtained a Master’s Degree in Plant Ecology at the University of Saskatchewan studying rare plants of the mixed grass prairies. After working as an environmental consultant and sessional lecturer…
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